An evening of people-watching is complicated by a stranger asking the question no one wants to hear.
I walked Shannon to the subway, trying to hide the tension in my stomach. What if she had hidden the money and said that I had stolen it? I felt vulnerable as I hung my head to keep a low profile on the normally breezy two-block walk to my apartment. I imagined a meth lab hidden in the woods, run haplessly by the cast of “Deliverance.” She leaned in close to me and whispered, “I have a hundred-thousand dollars cash in these bags.” Her eyes widened, awaiting my impressed reaction. Then, just as Shannon and I stood up, the persistent vibration of my phone rattled the metal park table. I had a drink,” the woman confessed to Shannon. When I asked if he lived on the north side of the park, his assault continued: “I don’t know what the north side of the park is. I explained that I was just a stranger whom she had asked for directions. Now I was in my 40s and excited to host Shannon in my Brooklyn neighborhood for a pint of goat cheese and red cherry ice cream. Her brown hair had gone mostly gray, but she had every bit of the energy and snappy wit I remembered. I presumed that she was tired from shopping all day in Manhattan and anxious to relax at her brother-in-law’s apartment.
Andrea Stevens, a Times editor, died this month at 83. She was a loved and feared presence in the theater world. In an essay, Ben Brantley explores her ...
I trusted her to take the full measure of what I was doing, what I was trying to do and what I hadn’t yet done.” [Arthur Laurents](https://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/06/arts/arthur-laurents-playwright-and-director-dies-at-93.html), the acid-tongued librettist of “Gypsy” and “West Side Story,” wrote of her in his memoir “Original Story By”: “Andrea loves the theater like a woman who knows everything about her faithless lover but loves him anyway.” [Al Hirschfeld’s immortal caricatures](https://www.nytimes.com/2003/01/21/theater/al-hirschfeld-99-dies-he-drew-broadway.html) into the Sunday Times, who arranged the interviews with leading actors and playwrights that appeared in the newspaper. From an email she sent to Jason Zinoman in 2010, not long before she left The Times:“As the culture diffuses further, as distractions grow, as internet toys increase, it’s not going to be about taste,” she wrote. I figured ‘suggestions’ meant a couple of contacts, maybe a paragraph about the theme. Nonetheless, when I picked her up at her apartment building the next day, she was wearing freshly picked flowers, with leaves, in her hair. Peter Marks, now the chief theater critic of The Washington Post, recalled being assigned to write a piece when he was working in The Times’s Long Island bureau in the early 1990s: “‘I’ll send you some suggestions for the story,’ she said, managing somehow to sound at once encouraging and deeply skeptical. After discoursing briefly on the lot of serfs in feudal times, she concluded: “The majority of politicians are today’s priests in the temples. “It was exhilarating to be edited by Andrea,” said Margo Jefferson, the Pulitzer Prize-winning essayist and former Times writer. Okay, the golden calf now wears a necklace of flowers, a nod to the natural world. She could be relied upon to be unfailingly supportive and rigorously demanding of any writer she worked with, whether journeyman reporter or laurel-wreathed dramatist. “And wouldn’t you know,” she wrote.
Each day, Inside The Times Times Insider editors scour the newspaper for the most interesting facts to appear in articles. Here are facts that surprised, ...
[‘The Crown’ and the Appeal of a Royal TV Interview](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/11/15/arts/television/the-crown-royals-television.html) [Jacques Pépin, in Search of Lost Cars and Cuisine](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/08/05/business/jacques-pepin-french-cars-cuisine.html) [Can’t Talk, I’m Busy Being Hot](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/07/16/style/self-care/hot-girl-megan-thee-stallion-tik-tok.html) [When Motherhood Is a Horror Show](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/05/12/arts/motherhood-horror-movies-tv.html) [Cooking Online, Arab Women Find Income and Community](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/07/05/dining/arab-women-youtube-cooking-videos.html) [two million people annually — a 500 percent increase since 1970](https://www.aclu.org/issues/smart-justice/mass-incarceration). Wright](https://kellywright5.wixsite.com/raciolinguistics). [A Two-Year, 50-Million-Person Experiment in Changing How We Work](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/03/10/business/remote-work-office-life.html) [one in three American adults](https://www.ncsl.org/research/labor-and-employment/barriers-to-work-individuals-with-criminal-records.aspx) have criminal records. [California Air Resources Board](https://ww2.arb.ca.gov/our-work/topics/lawn-garden-landscape-equipment). [In Glitter and Leotards, They Took a Stand: Carnival Must Go On](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/03/03/world/americas/brazil-carnival.html) I leave you with that.” [Oscars Rewind: When Rita Moreno Made History and Thanked No One](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/03/11/movies/rita-moreno-oscar-west-side-story.html)
Family reunions, play dates and holidays never looked so good. But for some, isolation and sadness linger.
A lasting change was “the fear of going out in public,” one said. One in five said they were glad to be reunited with family and friends, and one in 10 mentioned freedom — from masks, from quarantines, from restrictions. Nearly the same share, 42 percent, said the pandemic had changed their lives in lasting and significant ways. In the Dynata survey, 46 percent of respondents said that while the pandemic had affected their lives, most of the changes it brought were temporary. We also surveyed 500 adults around the country, in partnership with Dynata, a data and survey firm. Returning to the theater, to restaurants, to playgrounds, to parties, to school.
For over 80 years, researchers at Harvard have studied what makes for a good life. They found one surefire, scientifically proven predictor of happiness: ...
[Julia Moskin writes](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/12/30/dining/resetting-your-routine.html). [preside over his predecessor’s funeral](https://www.nytimes.com/2022/12/31/world/europe/pope-benedict-funeral.html)for the first time in modern Catholic Church history. [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]). Or it [may not be remembered at all](https://klementoninvesting.substack.com/p/we-do-not-know-which-events-will), Joachim Klement argues on Substack. You can do something small and actionable today. And I told her how grateful I was. I did this once with my fourth-grade teacher, Roseann Manley. It’s in every realm of your life. It’s about the Harvard Study of Adult Development, which started during the Depression. Many of us on the Well desk had read “The Good Life” by Dr. It’s a relationship challenge that will help you address and improve different parts of your social universe with seven science-backed exercises. A team of reporters on The Times’s health and wellness desk, Well, developed a seven-day challenge to help you do just that.