Very demure, very mindful TikTok

Why ‘Very Demure, Very Mindful’ is TikTok’s Newest Buzzword—And What It Even Means!

Get ready to giggle! Discover how TikTok's latest trend, 'very demure, very mindful,' is turning everyone into self-aware comedians!

Just when you thought TikTok couldn’t get any more entertaining, it threw us a curveball with its latest trend: "very demure, very mindful." This buzzword, popularized by makeup artist Jools Lebron, has become the internet's go-to phrase for poking fun at how society expects people to act in respectful or sensible situations. With a playful twist, TikTokers across the platform are now showcasing how to embody this comedic blend of cuteness and mindfulness, creating hilariously satirical videos that keep us giggling.

From exaggerated facial expressions to over-the-top explanations of mundane actions, the trend reflects our cultural obsession with perfectionism and decorum. However, it’s more than just playful antics. Users are demonstrating their inner comedian while making a bold statement on the importance of self-awareness and the ironic expectations we all face. With countless videos going viral, it’s hard not to get swept up in the excitement of being “very demure” as you scroll through your feed.

The hashtag #VeryDemure has gained traction, and users have been creating their humorous takes on what being demure and mindful looks like. Think: a girl at a coffee shop, too afraid to order out loud, but with the sweetest voice asking for a “small cutesy latte.” Or how about a guy trying desperately to keep his ‘cool demeanor’ while wrestling with his emotions about a pet goldfish? These videos have become a safe space for self-deprecating humor, teaching us not to take ourselves too seriously—all while giving a cheeky nod to those socially acceptable norms we all know too well.

In the age of digital content, TikTok trends have a shelf life shorter than a Snapchat photo. But the satirical “very demure, very mindful” trend is particularly relatable in the Philippines, where cultural decorum and social expectations often take center stage. It’s a unique fusion of fun and critique, where creators cleverly caricature the pressures they and viewers experience in everyday life. Who knew a simple phrase could lead to such a delightful mix of laughter and introspection?

As a fun fact, the word "demure" has a rich history, originally stemming from the Latin word "demorari," meaning "to linger or delay," tying into the hesitation and self-awareness seen in these TikTok videos. And if you think about it, the rise of trends like this one only reflects how social media shapes language and communication—even if that language is saturated with humor! The phrase "very demure, very mindful" may fade, but the joy of collective laughter it brings will certainly linger a little longer!